My darling,darling irreplaceable Heather, Today is your 68th birthday , I can believe its now 3 years without you and the pain tears and devastating loneliness go on, you made so much of these amazing anniversaries when we were the perfect family but now all gone with you. This has been a difficult week with Mothers day on Sunday, Betsy,s birthday on Tuesday and your day today, God I miss you so much. We bought Betsy two lovely dresses from your favourite shop "Gingersnaps" in Raffles City in Singapore, I tried so hard to imagine what would have been your choice, I hope I got it right but dont suppose I will ever know, I also understand Eddie has a girlfriend, how lovely for him , she must be nice, I dont see them now so I might not recognise them, life is so cruel and very sad. John is coming to stay and Im seeing Phyl tonight to remember your day, she has kept in touch and has been very kind . Our lovely son has rung to see how I am , he cares. Happy Birthday my Heather wherever you are, wait for me please its getting nearer, my love forever as always Your boy, Alan xx😧