I just received a ‘friend’ suggestion from FB for a Phillipa Harding and couldn’t think who that could be, although of course, I’ve known the name Harding all my life having lived in Crick. Kathy was one of the gang I was in at school, one of my bestist friends, with her long plaited pigtails:) I just kept looking at the picture of the lady ‘Heather’, whose link Phillipa took me to thinking, I’m sure I know that face? Of course it’s only on reading here that I realised that it was the lovely Heather, who was actually more my brother’s age but of course I knew. I’m so very, very sorry for your loss, all of you 😔 Many of you know that I too know about the heartbreak of loss to cancer with my precious, darling boy Ben...just 9yrs old 💔😖 We all know you never ‘get over’ their loss (I actually hate those words), but just try to learn to walk beside the grief & pain each day. I’m not sure I’m even there tbh, & hv been diagnosed with Complicated Grief. I think though, the more you miss them, want them & need them back just shows how much you truly loved & cared for them, and still do. I wish you all much love and hopefully one day, peace in your hearts 💕 Sleep softly Heather 💐 xx